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Recently I spoke with a woman who has been looking for work for some time.  She devotes a significant amount of time each week to networking activities.  She said something that stood out to me: “I wake up every day and think about being unemployed, but my contacts don’t think about me until I remind them”.

Remind your contacts that you’re looking

All too often, those who are looking for work feel embarrassed to repeatedly go to their contacts and mention that they aren’t working.  Because of this, one of the key components of networking with people you already know is talking with them about subjects outside of work.  Invite them to coffee and talk to them about their kids.  Have people who are well connected over for a cookout; this allows your contacts an opportunity to help you out but keeps your relationship on the equal footing upon which it was founded.

Be prepared when people ask about your job search

If you think about it, there are a lot of people in your life who may not really understand what you do.  My own parents are a perfect example!  Because you want your contacts to think strategically about how their network can help you, it’s really important to have a quick summary of your career goals (aka your elevator pitch) ready to go when they ask.  Keeping it short and sweet not only keeps their attention but helps them to remember what you said two weeks later when they run into a perfect contact for you.

Keep yourself busy in the meantime

It’s truly difficult to feel equal to your peers who are working when you are not.  After all, your daily lives are substantially different—they get dressed and go to work every day.  One way to mitigate feeling like the odd man out is to keep yourself as busy as possible.  Whether you fill your time with volunteer work, continuing education, networking, or all of the above, staying busy keeps you emotionally fulfilled and interesting—which makes your contacts want to be around you and help you out.

As long as you have a clear career goal and keep yourself busy working toward it, there’s no reason to be embarrassed about reminding your network that you’re still job searching.  As my colleague said, they’re not thinking about you unless you remind them!

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Jessica Holbrook Hernandez is an expert resume writer, career and personal branding strategist, author, speaker and President/CEO of Great Resumes Fast. She creates high-impact, best-in-class, resumes and cover letters that transform job searches into interviews and ultimately job offers. For more information about professional resume writing or to read more career and job search related articles visit or call 1.800.991.5187.


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Jessica Hernandez, President, CEO & Founder of Great Resumes Fast

Hi, I’m Jessica. I started this company back in 2008 after more than a decade directing hiring practices at Fortune 500 companies.

What started as a side hustle (before that was even a word!) helping friends of friends with their resumes has now grown into a company that serves hundreds of happy clients a year. But the personal touch? I’ve kept that.

You might have seen me featured as a resume expert in publications like Forbes, Fast Company, and Fortune. And in 2020, I was honored to be named as a LinkedIn Top Voice of the year!

I’m so glad you’re here, and I can’t wait to help you find your next perfect-fit position!


  1. Robin Caldwell on July 3, 2012 at 8:32 pm

    This is a great article and quite timely for me, as I recently started reconnecting with people in my professional network. I’ve been volunteering to contribute to organizations whose mission I value and it feels good.

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